My wife taught me something about 6 months ago called "Kill them with kindness" something she uses in her line of work (no she's not a hitman or her).
But she said if you use this, when someone is been negative it will drive them cray cray (her words not mine).
I've been using this principle in nearly everything I am doing with a little help with some NLP training I have acquired Over the years and I can say I'm coming out with some amazing results. I don't want to go though all my tries at this in fear of losing the momentum I have built with certain people. But if I'm feeling peckish I'll go to a certain leading supermarket where they might have an offer on say 10 pieces of chicken and I have been known to come out with....... 15 has been the most, or yesterday my window cleaner came to the door as we needed to pay him, but I wanted something doing in return that I knew would cost extra (this is sounding filthy) so I had a chat in my happy positive way a d now having that something done at no extra cost.
So just to round things up, if something is bothering you or it's not right, don't just go in all guns blazing, go in with a smile and see what more you get.
"Be happy, it does drive people crazy"
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